First things first: You are part of the Oregami community!
We're not working in the dark, but are a community project where everyone can participate.
The central place where the Oregami community lives is our message board. Every discussion is publicly viewable, but those who want to participate need to register. Within the board for open discussions every registered user is allowed to post, within the restricted access boards one needs to be manually activated - but that's no big deal if you're showing some enthusiasm.
Hint: Bookmark this board link - it shows the active threads of the last days!
For the documentation of our concepts and ideas we use the software Confluence by Atlassian. Our confluence wiki can be found under oregami.atlassian.net.
If we work on our project - which is mostly in the evenings (CET) - we use to fire up Discord and chat in the Oregami Discord channel. News around our project are published regularly on Facebook and Twitter, longer versions of these news can often be found on our blog.
Interested programmers and web designers shall be warmly pointed to the information on the developer page.